Official Apology
Well, I screwed up. I put up a story on the hurt in my heart right now. I didn't realize that my brother and his girlfriend were reading this site. I'm sorry for writing an exaturated silly story. I love you so much, Ben. I am very sorry. I'm sorry for everything I've said. I'm sorry you don't want to be my brother anymore, but I understand. I would take the story down, but it's too late now. There is a Christmas present in the mail. You can send it back if you want. Please don't throw it away, it was expensive.
Again, I officially apologize for the former post. I won't try and contact you again Ben.
Again, I officially apologize for the former post. I won't try and contact you again Ben.
posted by ldbug at Wednesday, December 06, 2006
11 Comments:
I'm very sorry too, Christina. Of course I'm still your brother -- that will never change. However, I need you to respect me and my choices as an adult. The awful and untruthful things you've said about Shauna are hurtful (to me and to her). You don't know her. At all! I honestly believe you've manipulated mom and dad with your lies.
The point is, if you can't be supportive, I don't want to hear what you have to say. That's why I've been keeping my distance from the family. It's not that I don't love you or that Shauna is controlling and doesn't want me to call (she actually encourages me to patch things up -- she doesn't want to be the bad guy here). I just think it's insulting that you think I have such terrible judgment. I love Shauna. We are very happy together. She's an wonderful person if you'd just give her a chance. I just wish you, mom, and dad can move past all this.
Is this really Ben? The site meter says this comment came from comcast...
Yes, it's me. I'm on a laptop from work.
The evil witch here...I too am very sorry for my previous comments. Of course taking a shot at someone else's misery is a low blow and I sincerely apologize. It's been difficult for me to defend myself against outrageous misconceptions.
I think every girl hopes her boyfriend's family will like and accept her. I'm no different. I feel like I've been maligned, and I tend to come out swinging when I'm attacked.
I'm telling you from the bottom of my heart that I love your brother and want nothing more than your family to be happy for us. I'm truly sorry that all of this has escalated and become such a mess. I'm also very sorry for anything I've done to hurt you. I'd really like to start over.
I'm very confused.
dont give up ldbug, i gave up on my family and wish i could start over again, we all have our own opinions and thoughts and we should be able to express them without worrying if we are treading on someones toes, say what you need to say to each other then put it behind you and leave it there, i hope you can work it out as a family, especially at this time of year. hugs to you girl x
Guys, try to patch things up. It's always the best way. Especially if people are going to be separated by a huge ocean.
indoors - doesn't really matter anyway. He's spending Christmas in Tenn. I'll be in Montana. Then I'm leaving the country so I won't see him again anyway.
* - We're already separated by more than an ocean.
I wish I could be there to give you a big hug! Coming from someone who unexpectedly lost a sister, be careful what you say...it could be the last thing you get to say to each other. Feel free to call me if you need someone to talk to.
heather - I will, thanks. And keep your eye on the mail, there's a little something heading your way soon for Christmas;-)
Hmmm...Um. Ok, fuck it. For fucks sake pack it in. Him & Shauna are reaching out, albeit via the blog. Don't be so fucking melodramatic in the face of reconcillation.
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